Coping with the impact of a loved one’s terminal illness on children in the family requires a delicate and supportive approach: 1. Open Communication: – Honesty: Be honest with children in an age-appropriate manner about the situation. Use simple language and answer their questions with sensitivity. – Encourage Expression: Create a safe space…… Continue reading How to Help a Child Cope when a Loved One is Terminally Ill
Author: Sheila Burke
Sheila Burke is an End-of-Life Doula and Founder of the Being Better Humans online community. A published author, Sheila's most recent book, Bullshit To Butterflies, is a memoir about her husband Shane's journey with cancer.
Best Resolution of the New Year
Practicing gratitude can have a profound impact on mental, emotional, and physical health: 1. Mental Health: Positive Outlook: Gratitude helps shift focus from what might be lacking to recognizing and appreciating what is present, fostering a more positive outlook on life. Reduced Stress: Expressing gratitude has been linked to lower levels of stress…… Continue reading Best Resolution of the New Year
Being Honest is NOT Giving UP!
Being honest with your diagnosis when facing a terminal illness is crucial for several reasons: 1. Effective Communication: Understanding the Reality: Being honest allows both the individual and their loved ones to understand the gravity of the situation. It provides clarity and avoids misunderstandings. 2. Emotional Connection: Building Trust: Openness fosters trust among family members…… Continue reading Being Honest is NOT Giving UP!
Is There Closure in Grief?
Several factors contribute to the perception that closure is elusive in grief: 1. Continuing Connection: Grief experts emphasize the concept of continuing bonds. Rather than closing a chapter, individuals find ways to maintain a connection with the deceased through memories, rituals, and ongoing relationships. 2. Nonlinear Nature of Grief: Grief is not a…… Continue reading Is There Closure in Grief?
New Year, New You
This week is a GREAT time for reflection on the year soon to behind us. Simmer in the good memories. Be gentle with the not so good ones. Take it all in. And if you’re reading this into the new year… no worries you can begin this AT ANY TIME! Here’s a step-by-step guide: Reflect…… Continue reading New Year, New You
Acts of Kindness for the Terminally Ill
1. Companionship:Spend quality time with the individual, offering companionship and a listening ear. 2. Create Memory Books:Compile a memory book filled with photos, letters, and shared memories. 3. Offer Handwritten Letters:Write heartfelt letters expressing love, gratitude, and fond memories. 4. Provide Comfort Items:Offer soft blankets, cozy pillows, or comfort items that bring a sense of…… Continue reading Acts of Kindness for the Terminally Ill
𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗻 𝗘𝗻𝗱-𝗼𝗳-𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗗𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗮: 𝗔 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗵𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗴𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲
Chapter One (preview) from 👉 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗻 𝗘𝗻𝗱-𝗼𝗳-𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗗𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗮: 𝗔 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗵𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗴𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝗱e𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗱𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗮 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗵𝘆 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗲. (𝗦𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗹𝗮 𝗕𝘂𝗿𝗸𝗲 𝟮𝟬𝟮𝟯) 👈 Get it on Amazon HERE. For individuals AND can also be customized for doulas to use in their own practice for attracting clients. (Contact me…… Continue reading 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗻 𝗘𝗻𝗱-𝗼𝗳-𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗗𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗮: 𝗔 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗵𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗴𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲
Why Morphine is Used at End of Life
Morphine is often used at the end of life for several important reasons in the context of palliative and hospice care: 👉𝗲𝘅𝗰𝗲𝗿𝗽𝘁 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 “𝗠𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗣𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗘𝗻𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲” 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗺𝘆 𝗲𝗻𝗱-𝗼𝗳-𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗴𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 (𝗼𝗻 𝗔𝗺𝗮𝘇𝗼𝗻 HERE.)👈 1. Pain Management:Morphine is a powerful opioid analgesic that effectively alleviates pain. At the end of…… Continue reading Why Morphine is Used at End of Life
The Silent Struggle of Caregivers
Caring for a loved one is a noble and compassionate endeavor, but it often comes with a silent companion—emotional exhaustion. Here are 10 doable self-care ideas for the caregiver: 1. Respite Time: Arrange for regular breaks to recharge. Whether it’s a short walk, reading a book, or enjoying a cup of tea, taking moments for…… Continue reading The Silent Struggle of Caregivers
6 Important Things to Know When Someone is Grieving
Grief is brutal; everyone goes through the process in their own way and only within their own time frame. We also grieve much differently depending on the relationship. Whether it is you who is grieving, or someone you know, afford them the time to grieve on their own and in their own way.