One of the things I always struggle with is figuring out something good or meaningful to write on sympathy cards or sympathy flower arrangement cards. Here are a few suggestions that might spur some creativity or that can stand on their own should you choose to use them.Messages for Cards on Funeral Flower Arrangements: Sleep…… Continue reading Sympathy Messages for Flowers or Cards
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The Afterlife Bucket List: Keeping Your Spirit Alive
If you want your loved ones to help carry out your bucket list after you die, you can set things in motion beforehand in creative and meaningful ways. Here are some ideas: 1. Write an Afterlife Bucket List Letter Leave a letter detailing the experiences or acts you’d love them to do in your honor—whether…… Continue reading The Afterlife Bucket List: Keeping Your Spirit Alive
Tips for Writing an Obituary
Why do obituaries feel so important to us?They serve as a tribute, a record of someone’s life, and a way to honor their legacy. What makes a well-written obituary stand out?It’s personal, engaging, and captures the essence of who the person was. How have obituaries changed over time?They’ve become more personal, sometimes humorous, and often…… Continue reading Tips for Writing an Obituary
The Unexpected Ways Grief Shows Up—Because It’s Never Just Tears and Sad Music
Nobody warns you that grief isn’t just crying at the funeral and missing them on anniversaries. No, grief is a sneaky little bastard that shows up when you least expect it, hits you like a freight train, and leaves you standing there like, Seriously? Right now? 1. Triggers—A.K.A. Grief’s Favorite Party TrickYou think you’re fine.…… Continue reading The Unexpected Ways Grief Shows Up—Because It’s Never Just Tears and Sad Music
BOOK: The Rest We Deserve: Grief and the Lessons of Winter.
Grief has a way of making us feel like we must keep moving, as though stopping for even a moment might let it consume us entirely. But that’s not how nature works, and it’s not how we work either. Just as the seasons shift, there’s a time for everything – even rest. Especially rest. Winter…… Continue reading BOOK: The Rest We Deserve: Grief and the Lessons of Winter.
Confronting Fears with a Terminal Diagnosis
Confronting fears amidst a terminal diagnosis may seem daunting, but it holds profound benefits. Not only for individuals facing this challenging journey, but also those grieving from a loss. First, let’s look at how confronting our fears can help those with a terminal diagnosis: Empowerment Through Acceptance: Accepting the reality empowers individuals to shape their…… Continue reading Confronting Fears with a Terminal Diagnosis
Planning an At-Home Funeral
Planning an at-home funeral involves several steps. Here’s a general guide: Check Local Regulations: Verify local laws and regulations regarding home funerals. Some places may have specific requirements or restrictions. Obtain Necessary Permits: If required, obtain the necessary permits for home burial or cremation. This may involve contacting local authorities or health departments. Prepare the…… Continue reading Planning an At-Home Funeral
How to Balance Hope and Realistic Expectation
Balancing hope and realistic expectations when diagnosed with a terminal illness is a delicate and personal process. Here are some strategies to navigate this challenging situation: Open Communication: Talk to Healthcare Providers: Engage in open and honest conversations with healthcare providers. Understand the prognosis, potential treatments, and the expected trajectory of the illness. Insist on…… Continue reading How to Balance Hope and Realistic Expectation
Caregivers: How to Navigate the Waves of Helplessness
Witnessing a loved one’s decline from a terminal illness can be an overwhelming journey. Here are six tips to navigate the waves of helplessness with compassion: 1. Embrace Your Feelings: It’s okay to feel helpless. Allow yourself to experience the full range of emotions without judgment. Embracing vulnerability is a courageous step in the healing…… Continue reading Caregivers: How to Navigate the Waves of Helplessness
How to Help a Child Cope when a Loved One is Terminally Ill
Coping with the impact of a loved one’s terminal illness on children in the family requires a delicate and supportive approach: 1. Open Communication: – Honesty: Be honest with children in an age-appropriate manner about the situation. Use simple language and answer their questions with sensitivity. – Encourage Expression: Create a safe space…… Continue reading How to Help a Child Cope when a Loved One is Terminally Ill